I've Got Curves!

A few weeks ago my Toy surprised me with a gift. It is a black latex corset. It is so sexy. Here is a picture of it...

First of all, to make the title relavent I need to give you a little background. I have never been described as curvy. I am basically straight from ribs to hips. (I'm only exaggerating slightly!)

After my Toy surprised me with my new corset I ran to the bathroom to try it on! He got me all laced up the back and cinched up tight. I couldn't believe my eyes....I DO have a waist! I couldn't believe it.


I am so in love with this new thing....I can't wait to incorporate it into my wardrobe. (I just have to get some of that polish to make it GLEAM!) I can just imagine wearing it to work under a crisp white button-down shirt. Mmmmm, delish. I love the way it gets warm from my body heat after I have it on for a while. It's like it becomes a part of me.


NOTE: This was purchased from Eros Boutique. Horrible customer service and I would not recommend using them. He ordered this months ago and after trying to follow up on the order, was unable to reach the company by phone or email. When he was about to request our money back from the credit card company it arrived, shoved in a carboard box...no tissue, no plastic, no invoice, no nada. Nice touch guys, way to make your customers feel special. At least the Stockroom give you a lollipop!

All Work and No Play

...Makes for a very dull blog.

We have been working a lot lately and have only seen each other in passing. I think we have only had dinner together three times this month. So needless to say, the crop is a little dusty.

My Toy has done something so sweet recently I had to share....

A few weeks ago I ran out of my favorite perfume. I was so sad...it's my favorite scent. I have others, but none that compare. I just couldn't bring myself to put on anything else. (And I couldn't throw the empty bottle away either. Maybe if I let it sit there long enough it will magically refill itself!)

St. Patricks Day is the anniversary of our engagement (9 years ago!) After my Toy got home from work that night we had the usual chit-chat and went up to get ready for bed. As I was undressing I noticed something...a BRAND NEW BOX sitting with my perfumes!!! A new bottle! (See, I was right! I let the empty bottle sit there and it DID refill itself!)

It was such a sweet thing since we haven't gotten to spend much time together lately. Just a little reminder that he's thinking abot me...

And tonight we get to have dinner together...

Me? Aggressive?

Maybe just a little...

I was just reading this article on Yahoo and I had to laugh at all the things that men want their women to be. More of this, less of that....

Sorry guys, didn't mean to make you feel little. Whatever. If a guy pleases his wife, she will certainly please him back....if you know what I mean. I think more men should be reading Femdom blogs instead of asking their women to be more of this now, a little less later. How confusing.

This, however, is the only part of this article that I agree with:

Relationship Point: The Hook Up
Guys' Take: Women Aren't Aggressive Enough
Men certainly have long lists when it comes to their bedroom wants: a little more of this, a lot more of that, fat-free whipped cream please. But if there's one thing that men really crave in the bedroom, it's not a certain position, or even a certain act. It's a certain attitude. What many men want when it comes to sex is for women to show a little more assertion, aggression, and initiation. In the aforementioned national survey, only 25 percent of men rate their current partners as an 8 or higher on a 1-10 scale of sexual aggressiveness, while 60 percent of men say that's the level they'd like her to be. Many guys feel that if his mate is confident in the bedroom, he's more likely to stick with her beyond the bedroom walls. (Like he's doing her some kind of favor. Please.)

The only part that men never seem to grasp is that women need to feel loved and cherished OUTSIDE the bedroom before they can build confidence IN the bedroom.

I am so lucky to have a loving submissive husband who supports me and fosters my growth as a woman! Cheers to D/s!

Latent Fantasy

I've just realized something.

I like to bite. Alot.

I have always been a nibbler, but lately my Toy has challenged me to bite harder. I have been testing my limits...and his.

My absolute favorite spot is the apple of his cheek. It's just so cute and round, but I'm afraid of bruising his cheek. (Can you imagine...."How did that happen?") I have been experimenting with other spots too. The ear lobe, of course, is my second favorite. I can bite there pretty hard, but I still don't want to pull a Mike Tyson.

The one place that really gets him squirming is when I bite his cock or balls. When I bite his cock I like to use my incisors...nice and pointy. I love how spongy it feels between my teeth. And how great to feel his balls sliding away from my pressure inside of their sack.

I think I should practice more tonight!