Maybe just a little...
I was just reading this article on Yahoo and I had to laugh at all the things that men want their women to be. More of this, less of that....
Sorry guys, didn't mean to make you feel little. Whatever. If a guy pleases his wife, she will certainly please him back....if you know what I mean. I think more men should be reading Femdom blogs instead of asking their women to be more of this now, a little less later. How confusing.
This, however, is the only part of this article that I agree with:
Relationship Point: The Hook Up
Guys' Take: Women Aren't Aggressive Enough
Men certainly have long lists when it comes to their bedroom wants: a little more of this, a lot more of that, fat-free whipped cream please. But if there's one thing that men really crave in the bedroom, it's not a certain position, or even a certain act. It's a certain attitude. What many men want when it comes to sex is for women to show a little more assertion, aggression, and initiation. In the aforementioned national survey, only 25 percent of men rate their current partners as an 8 or higher on a 1-10 scale of sexual aggressiveness, while 60 percent of men say that's the level they'd like her to be. Many guys feel that if his mate is confident in the bedroom, he's more likely to stick with her beyond the bedroom walls. (Like he's doing her some kind of favor. Please.)
The only part that men never seem to grasp is that women need to feel loved and cherished OUTSIDE the bedroom before they can build confidence IN the bedroom.
I am so lucky to have a loving submissive husband who supports me and fosters my growth as a woman! Cheers to D/s!
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"The only part that men never seem to grasp is that women need to feel loved and cherished OUTSIDE the bedroom before they can build confidence IN the bedroom."
Agreed!
Silverkey, I couldn't agree with you more. Men are selfish creatures. That is the beauty of D/s. We can teach our husbands or significant others to love and cherish us inside and outside the bedroom.
Sad that most men will never get it. Maybe if they tried to understand women they would be more satisfied. It took my husband years to get it. Sadly, non submissive men will never get it. So sad!!!
Its wonderful, isn't it, to be in a D/s marriage? So many of us seem to be counting our blessings this week....
Mistress160
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The eternal stalemate: men need sex to feel loved, and women the opposite. I rate my wife a two in the bedroom - and I'm probably about the same for her. That means it's really hard to feel real devotion outside the bedroom. After many stale years, what's to cherish? And since she isn't getting that from me, she has very little to give back. We're trying. I object to anyone calling me selfish. To say "I adore you" now is being dishonest. It's a sad, frustating position to be in, at least for a man.
A "2" in both directions, huh? Sorry it has come to that, anonymous.
Have you ever considered why hedge funds and stock brokerages are required by law to remind us that "past performance is no guarantee of the future"?
Yogi Berra had it right when he said "It ain't over til it's over."
And, yes, guys who are turned on by having their lovers run the show do have an unfair advantage in ever "getting" what it is that women want.
Don't just muddle along waiting to die, man! Nothing happens until something moves. Why not start with yourself?
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