So my toy insists that he has Domme-dar. He can spot one from a mile away.
Now confidence, that's an easy one to see. And bitchiness, well that's usually just a cover for insecurity. But can you really spot a Domme?
What is it about her? Is it the way she acts? Is it in her eyes or her voice? Is it the way she makes eye-contact without smiling? Can you tell by the way she walks?
What about my Domme friends? Do you think people can tell when you walk down the street? As for myself, I know people see my confidence, but what else do they see?
I wonder....
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- Silverkey
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- I am a hot powerful bitch and my husband loves me that way!
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7 comments:
I admire intelligent eyes and a confidence stance in a woman as much as the next guy ...
Women more than men acquire social coloring that they are taught will appeal to me. There's no reason to think any of it matches her heart.
And I'm sure there are petite, shy looking woman who enjoy dropping a man to his knees.
your toy is not he only one with it.
Mine is not perfect but i can usualy tell a Domme from a non. It's just a sense i cant really put it into words, Its just like i can sense when my Mistress enters the room even if i can't see her or am preocupied by something else.
Personally, I think this is fantasy.
It's likely projection on the part of many desirous males.
It may well be that some male submissives can identify Female Dominants, but I'll bet, if carefully measured, they also identify a lot of 'false positives,' women whom they feel are dominant, but are not, in fact, self-aware Dominas.
Thanks for your feedback gentlemen.
We will have to conduct more 'studies' to really find out!
-S
richard said:
"And I'm sure there are petite, shy looking woman who enjoy dropping a man to his knees."
Oooh! Ooooh! That would be me!
I would be interested to hear from the guys who would also make the same claim of having Domme-dar.
My experience is the Women who exude confidence and dress and act Dominant in public; often aren't. A couple of times I've met women who just were so Domme on the exterior that I could have openly knelt before them. Yet, when delicately questioned, the women I thought were dominant shared that like a 'man to lead' in relationships - go figure.
My last girlfriend gave off that dominant aura. but Then she mentioned she thought it was hot when a man took control, especially when most seemed intimidated by her.
Then again, she maintained her preference for men that didnt come on too strong, had way too much fun with my nipples and subtle hints of strap on play.
I was one confused man.
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