Ancient History

O.k. here is a little history. My toy and I have been together for 12 years and married for 8 of those years. We also have a 4 year old.

We have been practicing D/s for about a year now although we have always been this way to some degree. I have always been the initiator and he is the pleaser...always making sure everyone is happy.

After years of being happily married we decided to have a child, and that is where this story really begins. Having a baby is not a good thing for the sex life. We were exhausted and I felt like everyone wanted something from me. That's when things got hard. We were cranky and there was no more intimacy, just diapers.

So after 3 hard years of being parents and not really lovers, we left our son with grandma and went to Vegas. We were having a lot of discussions about what intimacy meant to each of us and what turned us both on. What we discovered is that me taking charge in the bedroom was the biggest turn-on for us both. After that discovery, we had a lot of great sex and returned from our trip rejuvinated, reunited...and horny!

Then began the research. We started reading, and reading and reading. We finally stumbled onto D/s and the examples really seemed to fit us. So we started to experiment, and had a lot of fun with the power exchange. We were turned on all the time while still keeping it mostly confined to after dark hours and in the bedroom. (We have had our challenges too, when vanilla life interferes, but that's life...however you choose to live it!) So a few dildos a cb2000 and a riding crop later...Here we are.